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Episode: The 10 Saddest 1970s Disco Songs That Will Make You Cry On The Dancefloor
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About These Sad Disco Songs
Sad disco songs sound like a contradiction, yet some of the most heartbroken records of the 1970s were made for the dance floor. People danced to songs about leaving and losing, often without noticing how sad the words were.
This episode counts down ten disco-era records with heartache hidden inside the beat, each checked against chart records.
The Countdown: 10 Sad 1970s Disco Songs
#10: Don't Leave Me This Way — Thelma Houston (1976)
The song first appeared on Harold Melvin and the Blue Notes' 1975 album Wake Up Everybody, with Teddy Pendergrass singing lead. It was not released as an American single at the time.
Thelma Houston had signed with Motown in 1971, but her early records there went largely nowhere. Producer Hal Davis gave her this song, with strings arranged by Arthur G. Wright. A Boston pool of disc jockeys reported that crowds loved the album track, which helped push it out as a single.
It topped the disco chart and, in April 1977, spent a week at number one on the Billboard Hot 100. Houston, now 83, won the Grammy for Best Female R&B Vocal Performance, and in 2025 Billboard ranked the song among the greatest LGBTQ+ anthems of all time.
#9: Last Dance — Donna Summer (1978)
According to arranger Bob Esty, songwriter Paul Jabara once locked Donna Summer in a hotel bathroom in Puerto Rico until she listened to his rough cassette of this song. Esty also said producer Giorgio Moroder did not like it at first, though Moroder went on to record her vocal.
Jabara wrote it for the 1978 film Thank God It's Friday, set in a disco, in which he also played a lovelorn dancer. The record opens as a slow ballad before the beat kicks in.
It peaked at number three on the Hot 100 in August 1978. Jabara won the Academy Award and a Grammy for the song, and Summer won a Grammy too. Jabara died in 1992 at age 44. The sadness is the clock: the lights are about to come up.
#8: If I Can't Have You — Yvonne Elliman (1978)
Barry, Robin and Maurice Gibb wrote this song for the Saturday Night Fever soundtrack. The Bee Gees had actually written "How Deep Is Your Love" with Yvonne Elliman in mind, but manager Robert Stigwood wanted the brothers to record that ballad themselves, and Elliman received this song instead.
Elliman had sung Mary Magdalene in the 1973 film of Jesus Christ Superstar. Freddie Perren produced her version, which reached number one on the Hot 100 dated May 13, 1978, ending the eight-week run of "Night Fever." The groove says dance, but the words belong to someone who cannot accept being left. Elliman is 74 today.
#7: Please Don't Go — KC and the Sunshine Band (1979)
The band known for "Shake Your Booty" surprised everyone with a sentimental ballad. Harry Wayne Casey wrote it with his partner Richard Finch, and it was the group's first ballad of its kind.
Released in July 1979, it reached number one on the Hot 100 dated January 5, 1980, for a single week. That made it the first number-one hit of the 1980s.
Shortly after that week at the top, the group broke up and Casey went solo.
#6: Native New Yorker — Odyssey (1977)
Sandy Linzer and Denny Randell wrote this song, and Odyssey recorded it in West Orange, New Jersey, across the river from the city it describes. Jazz saxophonist Michael Brecker took the tenor sax solo, the loneliest sound on the record. The words follow a young woman who learned that love is not a Broadway show.
Released in September 1977, it reached number 21 on the Hot 100, number six on the soul chart, number three on the dance chart and number five in Britain. Today it is played after New York City FC home games at Yankee Stadium.
#5: MacArthur Park — Donna Summer (1978)
Jimmy Webb wrote this song about his relationship and breakup with Susie Horton. The two sometimes met for lunch in MacArthur Park in Los Angeles. Webb said the famous cake left out in the rain was something he actually saw, and that the song was meant as a symbol of a love affair ending.
Richard Harris took it to number two in June 1968. Years later, readers of humor columnist Dave Barry voted it the worst song ever.
Giorgio Moroder said he heard the Harris record on the radio while driving on the Hollywood Freeway, and he rebuilt it for Summer with Pete Bellotte. In November 1978 it gave Summer her first Hot 100 number one, the only Webb song ever to top that chart.
#4: Young Hearts Run Free — Candi Staton (1976)
Candi Staton was born in Hanceville, Alabama, and began singing gospel as a girl with the Jewell Gospel Trio. Her soul recordings later earned her the title "First Lady of Southern Soul."
Writer and producer Dave Crawford built this song from her own story of an abusive relationship. In a 2024 PBS documentary, Staton recalled that her husband at the time once held her over a hotel balcony in Las Vegas and threatened her. She talked him out of it and later left.
The record sounds bright and joyful. It reached number one on the soul chart, number 20 on the Hot 100 and number two in Britain.
The Top 3
The final three are revealed in the episode.
Watch the countdown to find out — or tap below to read them now.
#3: Knowing Me, Knowing You — ABBA (1977)
ABBA was not a disco act, but this song found its way onto plenty of dance floors. It was first called "Ring It In," then "Number One, Number One," until manager Stig Anderson suggested the final title. Björn Ulvaeus wrote the words about a breakup, and Frida sang lead.
When the backing track was started on March 23, 1976, both couples in the group were still married. Years later, Björn said, "It's possible that I felt a premonition about something."
Released on February 18, 1977, it went to number one in Britain, West Germany, Ireland, Mexico and South Africa, and reached number 14 in America. In the 1990s, the British comedy series Knowing Me, Knowing You with Alan Partridge took its name from the song.
#2: Never Can Say Goodbye — Gloria Gaynor (1974)
Clifton Davis wrote this song with the Supremes in mind, but Motown gave it to the Jackson 5. Recorded in June 1970, when Michael Jackson was just 11, it spent three weeks at number two on the Hot 100 in 1971 and topped the R&B chart.
Gloria Gaynor's 1974 version on MGM Records sounded like a grown woman standing at a door she could not walk through. On her album, side one ran as one continuous 19-minute dance medley: "Honey Bee," "Never Can Say Goodbye" and "Reach Out, I'll Be There," with no breaks between songs.
It became the first song to top Billboard's new dance chart and reached number nine on the Hot 100. Gaynor is 83 today.
#1: Don't Let Me Be Misunderstood — Santa Esmeralda (1977)
Bennie Benjamin, Horace Ott and Sol Marcus wrote this song for Nina Simone, who released it in 1964. Ott wrote the melody and chorus after a falling-out with his girlfriend, Gloria Caldwell, and because of songwriting-society rules, he credited her in his place. The Animals' 1965 version reached number 15 in America and number three in Britain.
In 1977, French producers Nicolas Skorsky and Jean-Manuel de Scarano formed Santa Esmeralda after meeting singer Leroy Gómez in Paris. Gómez was born in Wareham, Massachusetts. They set the song to flamenco guitar and a disco beat, filling a 16-minute album side. It topped the dance chart and matched the Animals' peak of number 15 on the Hot 100.
In 2003, Quentin Tarantino used it in Kill Bill: Volume 1, during the final duel between the Bride and O-Ren Ishii, bringing the plea to a new generation.
Why Disco Could Hold So Much Heartache
A slow ballad lets you cry alone. A disco record lets a whole room of strangers feel the same ache together, and nobody has to stop dancing.
That is why these sad disco songs still hit so hard at weddings and reunions decades later: the beat says move, and the words say remember.
Which of these songs had you dancing before you ever really heard what it was saying?
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